ElafRaslan

We get into a pattern as kids, either cause of the genetic mutation that we had to suffer from out ancestors or because a psychological trauma or due to something we have seen and experienced as kids as we saw our parents doing it and so we are a mere replication of what they did.
Breaking such patterns, requires a great deal of awareness and un-bondage with your denial mechanism and even with those two, no matter how high you are up the food chain you wont be able to change it, cause even for the people of strong minds cant not reach a level of awareness that there are no longer loop holes or unknown grounds. It could be inevitable to un-break this pattern but for the sake of hope, lets live in denial.
You can identify the pattern of humans with time, we all share same the basic traits but in different rates and with the limited ability for humans to change completely,( i don't think the mind can cope with severe changes properly) you will still be able to trace the pattern.